I always
like to focus these days on diagnosing the elements in patients our participants
want help with, or, as this time, diagnosing the participants themselves who
want a clearer picture of their own element.
You will note that I say “a clearer picture” rather than a definite
diagnosis. This is something I insist
upon, because I am so aware that a diagnosis can initially only be a tentative
hypothesis and awaits confirmation from the way in which a patient responds to
treatment. In other words, we are never
sure that we have the right guardian element until that element has shown us,
through its positive reaction to treatment, that this treatment is directed in
the right place along the circle of the elements.
I know that
hovering over all five element acupuncturists is the picture of JR Worsley
interacting with a patient for a few minutes, and then turning to us with an
immediate diagnosis of one element. This
picture can delude us into thinking that every diagnosis we make should be
equally as fast. But, as JR told us as
students, it had taken him more than 40 years’ hard work to get to the stage he
had reached. We would all be able to do the
same, he said, once we had the same number of years’ practice behind us. So those of us with far fewer years’ experience
will have to accept that tracking an element down to its source in a patient
takes more than just a few minutes, and very often many more than just a few
treatments.
What I tell
students is that no patient minds how long this takes provided they feel our
compassion for them. A practitioner, Jo,
who has attended many of our seminars, has just sent me the following lovely
quote: “People don't care what you know, they want to know that you care.” As long as we show we care, a patient will trust us to know
what we are doing and allow us the time to work out gradually which element we
should address with our treatment. We
must never allow ourselves to be hurried by our patients into feeling that
things should be moving more quickly than they are. One of the things we were told as students
was that it takes about a month of treatment for every year of illness. That does not mean continuous weekly
treatments, but it is a helpful rule of thumb, and allows us to tailor our
expectations to a more realistic level.
Once my patients have started treatment, I have noticed that
very few of them, if any, seem to spend much time talking about their symptoms,
but instead want to talk about their life in general. In fact they often forget altogether why they
originally came to see me, evidence that patients do indeed want “care”, and not
necessarily a “cure”, although with care often comes cure, since usually the
two are closely related.
Our next seminar will be in the spring. In the meantime, Guy
and I are off to China
again in mid-November. Our usual
enthusiastic group of practitioners over there are again organizing a
preparatory five element course for the people who will be attending for the
first time so that we will be preaching already to the converted. And luckily the new edition of the Mandarin
version of my Handbook of Five Element
Practice, with its Teach Yourself
supplement, is flying off the shelves over there, and will give Chinese
practitioners new to five element acupuncture a firm foundation on which to
base their practice.
I remember a story which Nora told us at one Seminar - having a conversation about acupuncture with a woman in a shop who showed great interest so she gave her one of her books to read more about it. I was lucky enough to have the opportunity, after attending a seminar held by Nora and Guy, to have the opportunity to buy lots of copies of Nora's book "A simple guide to acupuncture - The Five Elements". This little book has proved to be an invaluable tool in my treatment room in helping decide on the Guardian Element. When my patients first come for treatment I always explain to them the difference in Five Element acupuncture and TCM (from what I understand) and they are always intrigued! If they are interested to find out more I give them one of Nora's book which they take away with joy and intrigue. This, I find, greatly helps their treatment. Firstly because they come back and confirm to me what they think their Guardian Element is which greatly helps me because sometimes I miss little insights which they have not yet shared with me. They also understand more about their treatment and which in turn helps them. What is so lovely is that sometimes they give the book back to me so that I can pass it on to someone else or they are ask if they can pass it on to friends, family, boyfriends, girlfriends etc. A very precious book for both me and my patients and for many others to be introduced to the beauty of Five Elements. Thank you Nora for all your work on keeping Five Elements alive.
ReplyDeleteThank you, Aynsley. I'm glad my little book helps your patients understand their treatment better - which is why I wrote it!
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