"Recently I have some new understandings of water, and I’m eager to write to you to see if it’s right or not.
There
was a patient of mine (I treated him with common acupuncture, not five element
acupuncture), who I thought was a wood person for the first few times I saw
him. I used to be quite sure of that because he argued a lot, and he liked to
direct me what to do. And most of my friends of our Chengdu group considered him to be wood too.
As he had read your book, one day when I told him about my diagnosis, he denied
it, and he insisted that he is water but wood. So that day I had a longer talk
with him, and I found that when he was talking with me, his eyes wandered, and
his color was not green but bluish black. He kept telling me about this or that
with a fast and droning tone and sometimes I had to stop him to ask another
question. I started to think that maybe he was water, but I still thought that
there was a lot of wood under water. And except for his casual back pain, he
also told me about his main problem, excessive sexual desire, which obsessed
him for years and I really didn’t know how to deal with it with common
acupuncture. So I decided to treat him with five element acupuncture.
Because of the following two things, now I can be sure of his element,
which is water. The first is of course the effect. He was very sensitive to the
treatment, he would report his change to me every time after he was treated,
and it was going to a very good direction. He found that he was becoming more
and more calm, more optimistic to the future and more energetic. He now knew
what direction he'd like to go to. The symptoms on his back and leg were almost
gone, and his problem of excessive sexual excitement was much better too. The
second reason was that one day we had a little argument, he kept saying things
to let me know that he was right, which made me become very impatient and even
a little angry, but instead of being irritated by me, he started to apologize
to me. I thought if he was wood, he would become angrier than me, right?
Now that I can be certain of his element, I have even more doubts. There are a lot of water people around me, but none of them are like him. They never speak out what they really think of. Even if they do not agree with my opinion, they hide their true feelings. But he seems to be much more overwhelming than other water people, he always pushes me to do things or accept things that he wants me to. Is it because he is a water person with a lot of wood or is this another characteristic of water?
I was very confused about this until one day I remembered that I had read on Mei's blog that you described Mo Yan (the Chinese Nobel Prize winner) into "quiet flame", and I suddenly realized that since there were different kinds of fire, and there would definitely be different kinds of water, too! Most water people I knew may like small streams glide through the meadow, they skirt obstacles silently, but this patient is more like flood, he is so powerful and if there is a dam, he'll just rise until the dam is broken over. Am I right to comprehend it this way? And since he is becoming more and more calm after treatment, it represents that if a water person is so overwhelming like he used to be, it shows that this person is not in balance, right?
Now that I can be certain of his element, I have even more doubts. There are a lot of water people around me, but none of them are like him. They never speak out what they really think of. Even if they do not agree with my opinion, they hide their true feelings. But he seems to be much more overwhelming than other water people, he always pushes me to do things or accept things that he wants me to. Is it because he is a water person with a lot of wood or is this another characteristic of water?
I was very confused about this until one day I remembered that I had read on Mei's blog that you described Mo Yan (the Chinese Nobel Prize winner) into "quiet flame", and I suddenly realized that since there were different kinds of fire, and there would definitely be different kinds of water, too! Most water people I knew may like small streams glide through the meadow, they skirt obstacles silently, but this patient is more like flood, he is so powerful and if there is a dam, he'll just rise until the dam is broken over. Am I right to comprehend it this way? And since he is becoming more and more calm after treatment, it represents that if a water person is so overwhelming like he used to be, it shows that this person is not in balance, right?
PS: After writing this letter, I read your descriptions of water again,
and I found that what I need to know was already on the book! But this time I
had much deeper understanding of what you’d written. And I realized that when
you were not by our side, patients were our best teachers. We would never make
progress if we don’t respect what patients teach us."