I have always thought that Roger Federer is Water. I can’t see his colour or smell his smell when I watch him on TV, but his body movements are so fluid, as if he flows through the air, and I think his voice is the kind of groaning I associate with water flowing around rocks. So I was amused to read the following in the Guardian newspaper a day or so ago:
“Their (the crowd’s) love for Federer is boundless. And he appreciates it more than people
realise. In an interesting aside later, the Swiss was asked how much time he
Federer said, pausing. “I don’t like
being alone. I mean, I’m not afraid of being alone. I like being surrounded by
my friends, family. It’s obviously the best. I like talking to people. Now with
four kids anyway, there is a lot of that, which is perfect for me in my life
because I’m very happy.”
I always think of Water people as being like individual
drops of water that stream together with their fellows to form the
flow of Water which creates a pond, a river, an ocean or a shower of rain. It’s therefore nice to receive some confirmation of this in Roger Federer’s
words. I find it interesting, too, that
he uses the words “I’m not afraid” when describing how he feels when he is
alone. There is a tinge of fear revealed in his use of the word
“afraid”, even though he is denying that he is.
(Water never acknowledges its fear, for that makes it vulnerable.) I asked myself if I, a Fire person, would
ever say “I am not afraid of being alone”, and realised that I would not. This is because I am not afraid of being
alone, but if I feel lonely it will be sadness, not fear, that I feel.
Earth, too, will not enjoy being alone, for it enjoys being
surrounded by the company of others.
Metal is perfectly happy being alone, since it is definitely the element which
most enjoys its own company, often preferring it to that of others. I don’t think it matters very much to Wood
whether it is alone or with people, since it is so occupied with planning and
doing things, and people will either help him do that or get in its way.
I enjoy piecing together fresh little thoughts like this
about the different ways the elements express themselves, prompted by something
that I read or see.